finding happiness in love

Hi everyone!!! I was on my facebook account last night reading when i noticed a guy who i was friends with got married and they looked soooo happy. i was thinking wow that could had been me. why i said that? well about three years ago that same guy pursue me and i blew him off because at that time i based him on the outside and not the inside. what i mean is that he didnt have "all the qualities" i wanted in a man. he was average height and i was stuck on tall men (6'-up), he didnt have a car, didnt have a good paying job, and he lived with his sister. BUT he was a nice person as we ballroom/step together when there is an event here. I never saw anything past that...like i said he didnt fit my standards. so yes i was shallow. i figure a woman in my age should be with a man who is already established in his career, life..ya know. i wasnt looking for someone to "start with or help out" til he found his niche in life. well i was told over and over that my standards are too high by my male friends. why shouldnt they be??? dont i deserve my prince??? lol!!! but i soon realized that i do have my standards at all time high as the man i want doesnt exist in one man. its just peices of different men i experienced all put together. so now i am re-thinking and re-creating my outlook on love. gonna try to look inside a person's heart. i was the first to say "you cant find from looking too hard". i will now take my own advice. ttyl!!!